How To Play Beyond Small Talk

Beyond Small Talk is a lighthearted, group-friendly conversation game designed to help you skip the awkward intros and dive straight into fun, meaningful moments. Whether you’re meeting someone new, mingling at a social, or hosting a game night, BSM helps turn casual encounters into unforgettable connections.

Here’s how to play:

Step By Step Guide

1. Set the Vibe

Gather in a relaxed, comfortable setting—whether it’s a cozy living room, a buzzing social event, or a team hangout. This game is all about connection, so keep it open, easy, and chill.

2. Lay Out the Cards

Spread a selection of cards face down on the table. No need to shuffle—just choose a handful, lay them out, and let curiosity do the rest.

3. Pick a Card, Start the Convo

Each person takes turns picking a card at random, reading it aloud, and answering the prompt. You can go in order, or let the conversation guide who picks next.

4. Keep It Flowing

After each answer, feel free to let others chime in—or move to the next card. There are no strict rules—just go with the flow and keep the energy fun, open, and honest.

5. Play With New People or in Groups

BSM works perfectly for first-time conversations, icebreaker circles, and any group setting where connection matters.

6. No Pressure, Just Real Vibes

Answer honestly, or with a bit of humour—it’s your call. The goal is simple: go beyond small talk and see what unfolds.

Example Questions

Here’s a sneak peek at what’s inside

• “What’s a random thing that instantly makes you feel at home?”

• “What’s your go-to move when you’re trying to impress someone?”

• “If your week had a theme song, what would it be?”

• “What’s something you secretly wish more people asked you about?”

Why Choose BSM?

Because connections shouldn’t be awkward. Beyond Small Talk is made for everyday settings—run clubs, game nights, university socials, new jobs, or even strangers on a train. It’s your go-to deck when you want real conversation without the cringe.

Break the ice. Ditch the small talk. Build real connection.